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Most people seeking a divorce or attempting to resolve issues arising after a divorce do not believe there is any way to avoid the cost and strife of litigating in court, unless they "give in" or "give up." Mediation is one alternative, but it requires both parties to take each other at their word, without the benefit of legal representation during the sessions. Collaborative Law is a powerful and empowering alternative for resolving divorce and post-divorce issues, and is less costly and destructive than traditional litigation.
In the Collaborative Law model, each party retains separate, specially trained attorneys whose only job is to help them settle the case. All participants agree to work together respectfully, honestly, and in good faith to try to find solutions to the legitimate needs of both clients. The process involves a series of conferences to resolve all of the issues, including parenting decisions and division of the marital estate.
Collaborative Law provides greater client control and creative problem solving than the courtroom. The outcome is entirely the result of the efforts of the participants, not a judge declaring what is fair based on arguing attorneys.
The Collaborative Law process requires respectful communication, full and open information exchange, commitment to settlement, and, in more complex cases, may involve the participation of joint experts such as financial advisors, mental health professionals and realtors.
Collaborative Law has many advantages over litigation:
Preserves post-divorce family integrity;
Designed to reduce stress and animosity;
Promotes effective communication;
Provides individual control over each case;
More cost efficient;
Protects privacy;
Mutual agreements are more likely to be adhered to by both clients.